Laughter Brings Memories

Today we had a long day. Kent and I were priviledged to have Redonia, Trent and Calah join us for dinner around 9:30 pm. Our kids are so crazy when they get together. The three of them sat across the booth from Kent and me. At times I did not have a clue what the crazies were even laughing about. I was reminded of Daddy. He could act so goofy! I came home and looked for a few pics of Daddy. I found one that made me laugh. I couldn't help but think that my Dad would have loved to be right in the middle of the kids fun and laughter tonight.

Daddy passed away in November 1981. Wow that is a long time ago for the feelings to be so fresh. The older the kids get doesn't make it any easier. When the kids were little I KNEW he would want to spoil them. Now I KNOW he would want to just 'hang out' with them. He was so much fun. The girls laughed, squealed and cried. Trent talked goofy and tormented the girls with his actions. Why is Trent so much like him? Why do I always think he would spoil Redonia even more than she already is? Why tonight did I find myself thinking Daddy would just love Calah, too?

It's weird I'm not sad tonight. I'm just remembering lots of Daddy's funny ways. Talking with different accents, wiggling his ears, saying corny things, etc. Daddy dressed very sharp. Hummm Redonia and Trent love to dress, too. Dad was very passionate about different ideas and thoughts. My kids get pretty passionate as well.

Dad, I love you....glad you were @ the booth with us tonight. I carry you in my heart. I hope you laughed with your crazy grandchildren tonight. Solemn me somehow passed your funny side to your grands. I'm so glad I did.


Yes, I'm the solemn child that Dad is holding. Check out the cardboard fireplace! Trent, I'm thinking you would love the suit Dad was wearing. Redonia and Calah, you girls could copy Grammy and get a new hairdo for Sunday night.